INTRODUCTION TO IMPACT PLAY:
A CAREFUL BEGINNER'S SESSION
Impact play involves spanking, paddles, floggers and similar tools, and it is one of the best-known parts of BDSM. It can also feel intense if it is approached too quickly. This 45-minute introduction is built to avoid that. We start with warm-up touch and gentle sensation, then build slowly so you can learn how your body responds and where your own limits sit.
Who this session suits
Impact play attracts people for very different reasons. Some enjoy the physical rush of sensation and the way it focuses the mind. Others are drawn to the idea of discipline, being corrected or taking responsibility for something. For many, the appeal is emotional release, a chance to let go of tension and feel completely present. It also suits people who are curious but nervous, because the careful build-up means nothing arrives suddenly. If you would like to understand impact before deciding whether it is for you, this session gives you that chance.
What happens in the session
We start with a conversation about your experience and any concerns, including which areas of the body you are comfortable with. The session then builds in stages: warm-up with the hand and light touch, introducing a soft tool such as a flogger, gradually trying firmer options such as a paddle, and a closing stage where we check in on how you feel. I will explain which areas of the body are suitable for impact and how to tell the difference between sensation you enjoy and sensation that is too much. The session ends with aftercare, which means a few quiet minutes to recover and talk.
Frequently asked questions
How hard will I be hit?
That depends entirely on you. We begin very lightly and increase only when you ask. You will not be pushed past your limits.
Will I have marks afterwards?
Light pinkness that fades within hours is common. We will discuss this beforehand, so you can tell me if you need to avoid any visible marks.
Why is this session longer than the others?
Impact play needs a careful warm-up and a proper cooldown, and rushing either makes it less enjoyable and less safe. Forty-five minutes allows each stage to be done properly.
Ready to book? Complete the Newbies Specials booking form or email Me. Sessions are available in London, E1 and in Essex from January 2027, with incalls and outcalls available on request elsewhere in London.