NEWBIES SPECIALS:
BDSM FOR BEGINNERS
Many people spend years curious about BDSM without knowing where to start. They may have a fantasy they have never said aloud, a kink they have only read about, or a partner who mentioned it once and then dropped the subject. Newbies Specials were created for exactly these people. Each session is a shorter, slower and lower priced introduction to one area of kink, led by a professional Dominatrix who understands that a first experience shapes everything that follows.
No experience is needed, and nothing is expected of you except honesty about what you would like to try. You do not need to own equipment, know the terminology or have a clear idea of what you enjoy. Finding that out is the purpose of the session.
How Newbies Specials work
Sessions last between 45 and 90 minutes, depending on the introduction you choose. Most are divided into three to six activities of about fifteen minutes each. This gives you enough time to settle into each one, notice how it feels and tell me what you think before we move on. Impact play is the exception: because it needs a careful build-up and more time to do properly, that introduction runs for about 45 minutes on its own.
Every session begins with a conversation about your interests, your experience, your limits and anything that makes you nervous. It ends with a quiet closing conversation where we talk about what you enjoyed and what you might like to explore next, if anything. You can slow down, change direction or stop at any point, and a safeword is agreed before we begin.
Introduction to BDSM: a guided tour of four different styles of play in one hour.
Introduction to Pet Play: a playful, affectionate way into submission.
Introduction to Anal Play: a patient, informed session for complete beginners.
Introduction to Obedience and Protocol Training: structure, rules and the satisfaction of following them well.
Introduction to Foot Worship: devotion and service in a calm, sensual setting.
Introduction to Impact Play: spanking, paddles and floggers, learned gradually.
Choose your introduction
Who Newbies Specials are for
These sessions suit anyone who has been curious about kink and wants to try it with someone experienced. Some clients have fantasised for years and never acted on it. Others have tried something once, found it awkward or rushed, and would like a better introduction. Some spend their working lives making decisions and are looking for somewhere they can hand control to someone else for an hour. All genders, orientations and backgrounds are welcome, and nobody is judged for how much or how little they know.
Where sessions take place
London, E1
Essex: from January 2027.
If you are elsewhere in London, you can request an incall or an outcall. For these space and transport costs are covered by the client.
Please get in touch to arrange this before booking.
What to expect from your first session
A relaxed conversation about your interests, experience and boundaries before anything begins.
A slower pace than a standard session, with time to pause and talk between activities.
A safeword and a clear way to stop at any point.
A closing conversation about what you enjoyed and what you might like to try next.
Complete discretion in a clean, private environment.
Frequently asked questions
Do I need any experience to book a beginner BDSM session?
No experience is needed at all. These sessions are designed for people who have never done any of this before, and you will be guided through every step. It is entirely normal to feel nervous or unsure beforehand, and I will help you settle in once you arrive.
Can I choose which activities I try?
Yes. Before the session starts, we agree together what will be included and what will not. You can also change your mind during the session, and if something does not feel right, we move on without any awkwardness.
Will anything be painful?
Only if I want it to be. Some introductions involve sensation, particularly impact play, but we begin very lightly and increase only if you ask for more. Pain is never the goal of a beginner session, and understanding how your body responds matters far more.
How long does a Newbies Special last?
Between 45 and 90 minutes, depending on the introduction. Impact play takes about 45 minutes on its own, while most of the others are built from several fifteen-minute segments.
Can I book more than one introduction?
Yes. Many clients combine two introductions into a longer session, such as pet play and foot worship, and they are still charged at the Newbies Specials rate. Please mention this on your booking form so the time can be planned properly.
What if I change my mind once I arrive?
That is completely fine. You are free to talk through your concerns, switch to a different activity or end the session. Everything is agreed in advance and nothing happens without your consent.
Is what we do kept private?
Yes. All bookings and conversations are treated with complete discretion, and your details are never shared.
How do I book?
You can complete the Newbies Specials booking form at the bottom of this page, or email Me. In your email, please include which introduction you are interested in, your preferred location and any questions you have.
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Ready to take the first step? Choose the introduction that interests you most, then complete the booking form or send Me an email, and I will take care of the rest.
Introduction to BDSM
This is the best place to start if you want a taste of several things before choosing a favourite. You will experience a handful of different styles of play in short, guided segments, which may include formal protocol, pet play, over-the-knee spanking and teasing. It works as a first date with kink: relaxed, structured and low pressure, with plenty of chances to say what you liked and what you would rather skip.
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Introduction to pet play
Pet play is playful, affectionate and often much gentler than people expect. You will be introduced to the basics, including collars, leads, simple commands, rewards and the mindset of being a well-behaved pet. It suits anyone who likes the idea of being guided, praised and looked after, and it is an easy way to relax into submission without any intensity.
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Introduction to anal play
This session is for people who are curious about anal play but want a patient, informed guide. We go slowly, with an emphasis on relaxation, communication, hygiene and the right choice of toys for a beginner. Toys are included in the session, and there is no pegging in this introduction. You set the pace and can stop or slow down whenever you want.
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Introduction to foot worship
A calm, sensual session centred on worship and devotion. You will learn how to serve and adore properly, with clear direction on what to do and when. It is a very approachable first experience for those who find the idea of kneeling and serving appealing, without any pain or intensity.
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Introduction to obedience and protocol training
Protocol is the structure behind many Dominant and submissive dynamics: how you address me, how you kneel or stand, how you ask permission and how you follow instructions. In this session you will learn a simple set of rules and practise them in short, guided exercises. It is a good fit for people who enjoy structure, clear expectations and the feeling of getting it right.
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Introduction to impact play
In My experience, these two work together for a simple reason: people are more honest with a framework around them.
Consider your day-to-day. If you manage people, carry targets, or hold a position that demands composure, it's unsurprising that you want somewhere those demands are lifted. Many of My clients are accomplished people who want, in one corner of their lives, to be told exactly what to do, and to be held to it.
Accountability gives you that structure: tasks, check-ins, consequences, standards. Roleplay gives you permission: a character, a scenario, a mask that lets you say things you'd never say as yourself. Neither works without the other doing its job.
For some clients this also looks like transformation. Discipline where there's distraction. Feminisation where a masculine profession leaves no room for it. Structure where there's none. Whatever I build, I build it around you.
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