INTRODUCTION TO BDSM: A BEGINNER'S SESSION
BDSM covers a very wide range of experiences, and it is hard to know what appeals to you until you have felt some of them for yourself. This one-hour session is designed to solve that problem. You will try four different styles of play, each lasting about fifteen minutes, so you can compare them and discover which ones interest you and which do not.
Who this session suits
This is the best place to start if you know you are curious but cannot say exactly what draws you in. Some clients arrive with a vague idea that they would like to be told what to do. Others are drawn to being teased, being playfully punished, or being looked after in a way they never experience in daily life. Many carry a great deal of responsibility and feel the appeal of giving it up for an hour. You do not need to name your interest before you book, because the session is built to help you find it.
What happens in the hour
We begin with a short conversation about your experience, your curiosity and your limits. The four activities that follow are high protocol, pet play, over-the-knee spanking, and tease and denial. High protocol introduces formal rules of behaviour and address. Pet play introduces a lighter and more playful form of submission. Over-the-knee spanking introduces sensation and discipline. Tease and denial introduces anticipation and control. Between each segment there is a moment to pause and tell me how it felt, and the hour closes with a conversation about what you enjoyed most.
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to try all four activities?
No. If one of them does not appeal to you, we can skip it and spend the time on another, or simply talk. The structure is a guide, and you remain in charge of what happens.
What if I like more than one?
That is a very common outcome and a useful discovery. Many clients leave with two or three areas they would like to explore further, and several of them have their own introduction if you want to go deeper.
How should I prepare?
Shower beforehand, arrive relaxed, and think about anything you would like me to know. You do not need to bring anything with you.
Ready to book? Complete the Newbies Specials booking form or email Me Sessions are available in London, E1 and in Essex from January 2027, with incalls and outcalls available on request elsewhere in London.