INTRODUCTION TO ANAL PLAY:
A PATIENT BEGINNER'S SESSION
Anal play is a subject that many people are curious about and few feel able to ask anyone about. This session offers a calm, informed and judgement-free place to learn, with an experienced guide who explains every step before it happens. There is no pegging in this introduction. The aim is to help you understand your body, build confidence and discover what you enjoy at a pace that is entirely your own.
Who this session suits
People come to this session for many different reasons. Some have been intrigued for years and never knew how to begin safely. Others have tried it before, found it uncomfortable and would like to understand why. Some are curious because of something they have read or seen, and others simply want to know whether it is for them. It also suits people who like being guided closely by someone calm and in control, since this kind of exploration works best when you are relaxed and trust the person leading it. Feeling nervous or embarrassed is normal, and nothing you say or ask will surprise me.
What happens in the session
We start with a frank conversation about your experience, your concerns and what you hope to learn. I then explain the essentials, including hygiene, relaxation, breathing, lubrication and why patience matters. After that, we move through gentle stages using beginner-friendly toys, which are provided, starting with the smallest and progressing only if and when you are ready. You can stay at any stage for as long as you like and stop at any point. The session closes with a conversation about what you felt and what you might want to try next.
Frequently asked questions
Do I need to prepare beforehand?
A shower beforehand is all that is needed. If you have specific questions about preparation, please ask when you book and I will happily advise.
Will it hurt?
It should not. Discomfort is usually a sign that the pace is too fast, and in that case we slow down or stop. Going gradually, using plenty of lubricant and staying relaxed make all the difference.
Is pegging included?
No. This introduction focuses on toys and on learning, and does not include pegging.
Ready to book? Complete the Newbies Specials booking form or email Me.
Sessions are available in London, E1 and in Essex from January 2027, with incalls and outcalls available on request elsewhere in London.