This or That: sub Edition

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Expectations: Would you rather have your Dominatrix set clear expectations for your submission, or have Her surprise you with new tasks and challenges?

Submission Starter: Do you prefer to begin your submission journey with a gentle, guiding hand or a firm, strict approach? 🥀

Task or Tease: Would you rather receive a list of tasks to complete for your Dominatrix or be teased and tempted with subtle hints and suggestions? 🥀

Punishment or Reward: Do you think you’d respond better to punishment for misbehaving, or rewards for good behavior in your submission? 🥀

Communication Style: Would you rather have your Dominatrix communicate with you through gentle, soothing whispers or firm, commanding orders? 🥀

Submission Pace: Do you prefer to take things slow and steady in your submission, or quicken the pace with more intense, challenging tasks? 🥀

Boundaries or Freedom: Would you rather have your Dominatrix set clear boundaries and rules for your submission, or be given the freedom to explore and experiment within reason?

Focus: Do you think you’d benefit more from a focus on physical submission (e.g., bondage, pain play) or mental submission (e.g., mind games, humiliation)? 🥀

Dominatrix Personality: Would you rather have a Dominatrix who is nurturing and caring or one who is strict and demanding? (I’m actually both lol) 🥀

Submission Goals: Do you want to achieve a sense of liberation and empowerment through your submission or focus on pleasing your Dominatrix and earning rewards? 🥀

Ownership: Would you prefer to wear a collar as a symbol of ownership, or receive a tattoo/mark that signifies your submission?

To Serve: Would you rather serve your Dominant publicly or in the privacy of your home?

Names: Do you anticipate being addressed by name or by a title (e.g., pet, slave, sub, slut) during scenes?

Restraints: Do you prefer to be restrained with ropes or with leather cuffs and restraints?

Senses: Would you rather be blindfolded to heighten your other senses or have your senses deprived in other ways?

Dominant Style: Do you prefer a Dominatrix who is verbally dominant or one who leads with actions rather than words?

Training Style: Like to be trained to perform specific acts or be encouraged to explore your own limits?

Safe Words: would you rather be given a safe word or trust your Dominant to gauge your limits without one?

Clothing: Would you like to be dressed by your Dominatrix, or choose your own attire within given guidelines?

Visibility: Would you prefer to be part of a larger submissive community, or maintain a one-on-one dynamic with your Dominatrix?

Written by Teal Revel

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